Listen to the bench banter and you will learn a lot about a coach.
As a young coach, I tried to control as much as possible and that distracted me from my purpose.
For every moment a coach is lost in frustration he loses a moment of reflection.
I know. I have been that young coach.
Until I wasn’t.
One season I conducted an experiment.
Enter apples.
I would buy apples and sit on the bench to observe my kids in action. Instead of barking from the bench, I would bite. I personally kept the apple industry profitable, and profited myself along the way. While I recognize one season may not be relevant statistically, let me share a bushel of takeaways.
1. My players did not need incessant instructions.
2. My athletes were better prepared as training was my teaching moment.
3. I enjoyed matches much more seeing competition as a celebration.
4. I had more time to observe.
5. My players took on greater leadership roles on the field.
I am not suggested that silence is the answer. I am suggesting that greater learning, joy, and celebration is what youth sport should be about.
To me, that is fruitful coaching.
"Training extraordinary educators and crazy good coaches." - Todd Beane